Today a mother came to visit after school, four children in tow. Her son Efrain was a 2nd grader with me last year, and her son Elijah is a fifth grader with me this year. They are both behind grade-level in all subjects. They are both small, sweet boys with broad, white smiles and a [...]
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The End
The marathon is over. The Wild Things have gone home (or what passes as home). All that’s left is bits of ratty paper and crumbly memories strewn through my room, through me. A school year. Nine-ish months of intense proximity. Just like a pregnancy, only with 20: viginitituplets? Puts Octomom to shame.
As I look back [...]
Parent-Teacher Conferences
Do you know those moments when suddenly a different path opens up before you? There you are, doing something that’s second nature, talking to your child or colleague or spouse or friend, in the comfortable, well-worn groove of a conversation whose basic path you’ve walked a hundred times before and you’ll walk a hundred [...]
The Call 2
I had to do it again today. Call the Department of Child and Family Services to report a parent.
This one haunts me for different reasons than the last one: last week, I knew the mother intended well but just needed some parenting help; today I know the mother intends bad.
This mother instructed her seven-year-old child, [...]
The Call
This week I had to make the phone call all teachers dread. To the Department of Children and Family Services. The supreme form of tattling.
Kelly walked at the front of the line holding a water bottle with ice in it. The last time Kelly was carrying a water bottle with ice in it, she’d brought [...]
José Again!
He’s back! He’s better than before! He’s José!
I met with his mother yesterday.
And his brother.
And his social worker.
You’d be surprised how many kids come with entourages these days. It’s my second social worker conference this year. The other one (surprise!) was Griselda’s (I just knew they had a connection).
If only their entourages brought them movie [...]
Creatures of Habit
We’re such creatures of habit. What worked before is what we gravitate towards, instinctually, it seems. Why does it take so much effort to approach things anew? And when are we willing to try?
My kids from the last two years were abstract thinkers. They loved symbolic manipulation. For most of them, [...]
A New Year
There’s something about a new beginning in September that’s embedded in our life’s rhythm no matter how far we are from school. New season. New wardrobe. A new fall line-up.
A scrubbed and purposeful self ready to begin crisp new things.
Parents and teachers. We feel it more acutely. We live by [...]

